This… I repeat… THIS Will be the post that will make most of you mad at me. And guess what… I don’t care!!! Wanna know why? Because it is my job to tell you the truth. This will make the ladies angry for obvious reasons, and this will make some of the fellas angry because I’ll kinda sorta be giving a piece of “the game” away. But Oh Well! I’m tired of the foolery that I see going on around me. Most of it is childish and (with no disrespect to my non black supporters) this is the kind of stuff that is woven into the fabric of the Black Community and it’s not helping our declining family structure. If you don’t like the truth then this DEFINITELY is not the post you should read. Ready? Let’s go…
#Scenario #1- If you had the opportunity to get a job… with a regular pay check… and a benefits package… and a company car… and a vacation every 6 months and you did NOT have to report to work everyday, or go to the meetings, would you take the job?!? Most of you would look at the opportunity a little funny at first because it would appear to good to be true but we’d all probably end up taking it or at least trying it out for a little while.
#Scenario #2- If you had the chance to have the perfect body for the rest of your life, with no work… no exercise… no dieting… no tanning… no grooming… Would you take it? OF COURSE YOU WOULD!
With that being said, If there is little to no requirement for us to commit to the work load, or commit to the time & energy part of it, BUT we still get to reap the benefits of a situation and take part in the Benefits Package, we’re going to do it!!! Let’s take it a step further… If I am a human being who enjoys company… good times… good food… sex… laughs… having things bought for me… etc… And I can get those things from a person without having to commit to them in a relationship, Most Human Beings are going to do it. Not all… But Most! SO! When you call my phone or send your e-mails to #KelzKitchen and ask things like, “Why won’t He/She commit?” or “I don’t know where it’s going, I mean they act like they’re my mate but they still want their freedom,” please don’t expect the angels to fall from the sky, and for Questlove and the Roots to start playing a Heavenly anthem, and for Bells & Whistles to sound off in the background of some miraculous answer. Your answer is VERY SIMPLE. When are they going to commit? Either A- When they feel like it or B- NEVER. You gave them the Benefits Package without requiring that they commit to the company. We’re supposed to be dating each other like -> THIS <- anyway! LoL! I think I’mma stop here for today. Y’all be good…
FYI- I’m Hosting #TheQuarterly THIS SATURDAY in NYC at Studio 21. SORRY LADIES… Female tickets are SOLD OUT! You know what that means, Fellas!! I have a 50% off code that gets you in for just $20 when you click the link to buy your tickets. The code is simple, it’s KEL SPENCER. This is where you want to be on Sat June 18th at Studio Twenty One. Ladies, Don’t Hate!! Share this w/your male friends! Ticket Link ~> http://newyorkcityquarterly.eventbrite.com/
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-Kel Spencer
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