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Woah! Woah!!! I know what you’re thinking and that’s not exactly what I mean, lol!!!

Have you ever been walking a dog, or watching someone walk a dog and they pass by another dog? You already know what’s gonna happen. Both dog walkers start to grip their leashes tighter. One walker might even be wise enough to cross the street. Both dogs are showing teeth. They both stop short and growl. You can see in the eyes of both of the dogs, that this is going to be intense. It almost never ends up in a fight. It often ends up with both dogs sniffing eachother’s crotches but it definitely starts off with all the makings of an exclusive episode of, “I’m about to go HARD!“

Men aren’t much different…

Not saying that men deal with men in that way. What I mean is, there is something in us that just clicks when it comes to whatever that thing is that we choose to go hard at. You can see it in the way a man treats his car or how hard he might go at a career goal. How many times have you seen a woman say, “Your food’s gonna get cold!!!” and we reply with, “Ok… I’ll be there in  a minute” while pounding away at a computer keyboard, or fixing something with our hands, or working on that last part of a song? And it’s not just men, little boys are the same way, it’s just in us. It’s because, just like dogs, we just have this thing in us that clicks when it’s time to go hard.

To take it a step further, you can gauge a man’s interest level or what he’s focused on by what he goes hard at. I can’t go as far as saying that this applies to ALL men but just as common as that defense mechanism is in dogs, I’d say the “go hard” mechanism is just as common in men. I guess this post can shed new light on the whole, “Girl, He’s just not that into you” phrase huh, lol!!

Funny enough, I actually go pretty deep into this topic and many others on my Salon Stories album. I know a lot of you have been hearing the name Salon Stories and still have no clue what it really means. I’ve been Blessed enough to be versatile in what I create so yes, the Fresh Prince of Brooklyn project is next up but you’re cheating yourself by not having the Salon Stories album hosted by MC Lyte, featuring Q-tip, Jesse Boykins III, Def Poets Shanelle Gabriel & Riva Flowz, Lydia Caesar, and many more. The music as well as the conversation peices on this album are timeless and needed.

You can get Salon Stories on itunes, rhapsody, or you can either download it OR have a hard copy with artwork and tracklisting and photos delivered to you via Amazon.

OH! And I’ve also teamed up again with Modern Day Matchmaker Paul Carrick Brunson and we’re doing another dating event on either June 18/19th (TBA) here in NYC. Check out the last one ~~> HERE  and for ticket information click ~~> HERE

But regardless, let’s not lose focus lol!! I’d still love your thoughts on this recent post… Lemme hear it!!!

-Kel Spencer