“I’m trying to get my Black Cupid on, but y’all jokers just make it hard for a brother“
-Kel Spencer
I just got off the phone with my homegirl who is having some issues…
The problem is, she can’t find what she calls a “Good Man.” Now, we all know that there are good men out there, right? Of course there are! I consider myself a Good Man. I consider my 2 brothers Good Men. I know a few Good Men. What I don’t understand is why soooooo many women say this. Is it because all of the good ones are taken? Is it because a woman’s definition of a “Good Man” is unattainable? Maybe it’s that the men are Good Men but they’re just not ready for a relationship right now? Maybe it’s because the men are Good Men but women come into the situation all wrong so it doesn’t work out the right way? I don’t know!!!
What I do know is, I have literally dozens and dozens of female friends & female acquaintances and far too many of them are saying the same thing. But ironically, I never hear guys complaining that there are no Good Women out there. And ladies, please don’t poke your chest out because summa y’all are a hot mess too! But can anyone out there please shed light on this? And fellas, I know we tend to just play the wall and let the ladies air it out when it comes to topics like this but you can post a comment below and be anonymous on here so please… Men & Women alike, Please share. Let’s get down to the bottom of this so we can all be happy and make babies and have barbecues and all that, lol! GET @ ME!!!
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-Kel Spencer
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