Posts Tagged ‘Gay’

#SPENCERISM- Same Sex Marriage

Posted: June 16, 2011 in I'm Saying. I just wanna know
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Uh Oh!!!!!!! Kel is picking on the Gay People!!! Uh Oh!!!!!

LoL!! No, not at all…

Before we start, let me give you a brief History/ Political Science review, Ready? Let’s Go…

People have choices and preferences. When they want to make their preference an actual law, they call this proposed law a BILL. They, then, send this Bill to legislature to be considered. If it is passed by the legislature and, in most cases, approved by the executive (President or Governor) it then becomes enacted into law, and is now called an Act or a Statute. Got that? Cool…

As of right now… The New York state Assembly (Legislature as mentioned above) approved same-sex marriage and the Bill is likely to face a vote in the Senate (Executive) TOMORROW (June 17th 2011), where it only needs support from ONE MORE senator to pass. If the Bill passes, same-sex couples could start marrying in New York as early as late July 2011. A recent Siena poll found that 58% of New Yorkers support same-sex marriage. Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont and the District of Columbia allow same-sex marriage RIGHT NOW, and several other states allow “Civil Unions.” FYI-  The first legal same-sex marriages in the United States took place in Massachusetts in 2004.

Now…  A hem…

I’m not even going to touch the “Gay” part of it. Notice, I haven’t used the term “Gay Marriage” and I won’t. I am a Christian. I am a believer in Christ. I own and read several Bibles. I am a Jesusian lol! And I also believe that because of that, some of you just might (or might not) be surprised by my views on the Gay aspect of Same Sex marriages. Maybe we’ll touch on that another time.

My issue with… Actually, I can’t even say it’s an “issue” because it’s not really that serious. I’ll say, my “hypothetical scenario & question” as it pertains to Same Sex marriage is; What’s to stop Johnny from Mexico who is STRAIGHT and Timmy from New York who is also STRAIGHT from marrying each other just so that Johnny can get his papers, then move to the states, to maybe eventually get a divorce and now Johnny is a citizen? Meanwhile, the whole time they’re both continuing in their heterosexual lifestyle with the women they might have just because their marriage wasn’t real but rather an “ARRANGEMENT?” Does that type of stuff dilute and discredit and devalue what marriage is supposed to be about? Or not? Does allowing Same Sex marriage further open the door to this type of activity? Or not?

While you think that over, and since we’re on the topic of relationships and love and all that jazz… I just want to remind you, we’re 2 days away! This Saturday, I’m Hosting #TheQuarterly in NYC at Studio 21. SORRY LADIES… Female tickets are SOLD OUT! You know what that means, Fellas!! I have a 50% off code that gets you in for just $20 when you click the link to buy your tickets. The code is simple, it’s KEL SPENCER. This is where you want to be on Sat June 18th at Studio Twenty One. Ladies, Don’t Hate!! Share this w/your male friends! Ticket Link ~>
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-Kel Spencer

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#SPENCERISM- Is this Gay? Or Not?

Posted: November 17, 2010 in I'm Saying. I just wanna know
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So let’s just say you don’t eat red meat… No beef, No pork, Only chicken, fish and turkey. Got that? Cool! Now, let’s say you’re stranded on an island for months and the only thing to eat are goats and pigs. You decided to kill a goat and/or a pig every now and then and have a little meal. Someone comes along and rescues you months later. You then have a welcome home meal with your family and when your Aunt asks you if you’d like some pork, you tell her, “No thanks Auntie, I don’t eat red meat.” Some may say that you are correct in labeling yourself a “Non-Read Meat Eater” because you only ate the red meat as a means to survive. Others may say, you have no right to label yourself a “Non-Red Meat Eater” because, regardless of why, you still recently ate red meat!!! Ok…

So, let’s say you have a friend who gets locked up… And as a means to survive sexually, they do certain sexual things with the same sex while in prison. Upon release, they are approached by the same sex to do some of that same stuff. They tell the person NO and they are not willing to participate because they do not wear the title of gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or bicurious, or any  homosexual, or transsexual, or anything else other than heterosexual. Some may say that they are correct in labeling yourself a “Heterosexual” because they only chose to do the slip n slide with the same sex as a means to survive. Others may say, they have no right to label themselves as “Heterosexual” because, regardless of why, you still engaged in the Same Gender Olympics. Let’s take it a step further, what if you’re a person who has tried same sex scenarios at a given time in your life, without the pressures of prison, yet you don’t anymore, what would you say to that?


Let’s be VERY clear. As a heterosexual WOMAN LOVING man, I do know gay people and have gay friends. And although the gay lifestyle is not my cup of tea, I want to BE CLEAR in stating that, this post is not designed to make fun of, offend, or look down upon anyone or any chosen lifestyle. So… I would love to know how my fellow citizens view the aforementioned scenarios. Please share…

For some reason, I think the comment wall below will either be VERY empty or VERY full, lol!!

Also, If you’ll be in the NYC area in Mid January and would like to attend the soon coming FREE shoot/show, (Read my past post entitled What is #FPBK for details) please send a quick e-mail to 3HirdPowerEvents@gmail.com with “#FPBK Show/Shoot” as the title and info will be sent to you soon. In supporting this movement, you are indeed supporting me but more importantly, you’re supporting yourself…

But please, gimme your thoughts!!!!

-Kel Spencer

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